Co Parenting Confusion
So here is my situation, I co parent with my ex and we rely on text messages for schedules. Recently things go missing and plans get messed up. I need a reliable way to track sms activity so nobody can twist the story. What sms tracker would you suggest that feels trustworthy and not overly complicated?
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I’ve been in the same “where did that message go?” loop with my co-parent — schedules get lost, someone says “I never got that,” and suddenly we’re rearranging the whole week. What finally helped us wasn’t sneaky spying, but agreeing to a simple way to keep track of SMS history so we both see the same thing and can stop the blame game.
I looked into some tools that aren’t overly complicated and that both adults can consent to using, so it doesn’t turn into another fight. One that worked for us to log texts clearly and reliably is SMS Tracker by SpyBubble — it was pretty straightforward to set up, and once it was running we could just refer back to the history instead of arguing. Just make sure your ex is on board with using it so you’re not crossing any lines.